#9: Problems make you happy. — Some of the most important truths in life don’t make sense on the surface, but once you get beneath it, the world will never look the same. I noticed this the first time I fell in love. There was a girl in my high school class I liked a lot…

…but repel them instead. — Attraction is a tough topic. Men and women both sometimes go to ridiculous lengths to woo potential partners. But well-meant isn’t always well-done, as overinflated lips and guys posing in front of rented Lamborghinis show. I know what it’s like. I tried to be the “alpha” guy for years until…

None of them take more than five minutes. — The Pareto Principle says 80% of your results come from 20% of your actions — but you have to find the right 20%. If you don’t, you’ll pour tons of time, money, and energy into a bottomless pit. …

A simple 3-step guide to a happier relationship. — The number one relationship killer isn’t weight gain, nightly farting, or a hot babysitter in tempting clothes. It’s routine. Adventurous dates turn into Netflix marathons. Steamy and passionate sex becomes a mechanic in and out. Wake-up cuddles and breakfast in bed make space for grumpy morning coffees. One day, you…

A simple lesson from a NYT bestseller and ten years of working out. — What do financial freedom, a fit body, and unwavering confidence have in common? Without discipline, you’ll get neither. It’s the glue that holds the building blocks of your achievements together, whether it’s hitting the gym, putting an extra hour into your side hustle, or living up to your standards. There’s…

Get ready for a few uncomfortable truths. — The best humor always has a grain of truth to it — that’s why these quotes will make you chuckle and think at the same time. Life Isn’t Fair, But That Doesn’t Matter “Expecting the world to treat you fairly because you are a good person is a little like expecting the bull not to attack you…

Human behavior is very simple. — Life could be easy, but unfortunately, some idiots make it hard for the rest of us. The guy who lets their dog take a dump on your lawn. Your arrogant boss who takes credit for your work. Your friend who’s late every time you meet for a coffee. I’ve been…

How to go from fake friends to ride-or-dies. — Nothing will improve your life as much as a good friendship. It’s common sense and science alike. An 80-year Harvard study found that the biggest factor determining happiness is your relationships with others. …

Plus: The simple ingredient for unforgettable encounters. — Very few dates take your socks off — first metaphorically, then in the bedroom. Most of them fall into the grey area — not bad but also not great. Then, there are the ones that suck because they don’t stop ranting about their ex or boring job. But that’s still…